Top 5 Sex Toys for Women (That ALL Husbands Should Know About)
If you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, buying sex toys that you and your wife can use together can be a game changer!
But how do you know which sex toys she'll like?
I recently did a survey on my Instagram asking women what their favourite sex toys are. Their answers surprised me, and I know they’ll surprise you, too!
So, without further ado, let’s jump into the list of the top 5 sex toys for women.
Top 5 Sex Toys for Women (For Maximum Pleasure)
The list below goes from the fifth most popular sex toy for women to the number one toy (which you need to get your wife A.S.A.P.!)
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#5 Vibrating Butt Plug
Starting with number five, we have the vibrating butt plug, which is essentially an anal toy that vibrates!
This particular model is the Neighbour from the SmileMakers collection. It comes in a gorgeous colour, has a lovely gentle shape, and isn't too big and intimidating, which is essential for butt play.
This is very popular with many women because the enhanced sensation and fullness that comes with having something in the anus, plus the added vibration, can feel not only taboo and raw (kind of animalistic😉) but can also stimulate the same nerves that are stimulated through clitoral orgasm.
In other words, it can feel incredible for her!
You can add this to your lovemaking during foreplay and intercourse. Plus, if your wife is one of the very many women who enjoy a vibrating butt plug, this can work for solo play. So, perhaps you'd like to see her play with herself while you watch?
As for during intercourse, the great thing about vibrating butt plugs is that you may even get the added sensation of vibration on the shaft of your penis too. Bonus!
Consider incorporating this into your play if you want to up-level your bedroom game. But always remember to use a lot of lube, take your time, and communicate when it comes to butt stuff.
If you want to learn more about this toy, I created a whole video giving my honest review about the Neighbour butt plug here.
#4 Vibrating Cock Ring
The next sex toy that women absolutely love is a vibrating cock ring. A lot of women enjoy this toy because it brings them the clitoral stimulation they need during intercourse.
Did you know that 75% of women don't experience an orgasm from penetration alone?
Well, a vibrating cock ring can be the exact thing you need to give her clitoral stimulation at the same time as being inside her!
This is the Mio from Je Joue. And the cool thing about a vibrating cock ring is that it goes over your shaft. In other words, you can stretch it over, and it sits at the base of your shaft.
In addition to providing your wife with added stimulation during sex, one thing it also does is keep the blood in the shaft, which can help you last longer and intensify your sensations.
This means you'll feel double the sensation—from penetration and the added vibration. A win-win for everybody, am I right?
Honestly, I was not surprised to see that a couple's toy made it onto the list of favourites with my IG audience since many married couples want toys that can stimulate both parties.
Speaking of sex toys for couples, if you're interested in buying sex toys that you and your wife can use together, I've tested over 100 of these toys, and I cover my top 5 sex toy picks in this video.
Getting back to cock rings, they're also a great place to start if you're new to sex toys, especially if you feel intimidated by bringing tools and toys into the bedroom.
But remember, sex toys are NOT meant to replace you. They're there to enhance the pleasure. And vibrators like this can bring the kind of consistent, rhythmic sensation that clitorises love.
#3 Air Pulsing Clitoral Stimulator
I wasn't surprised to see this toy on the list of favourite sex toys for women. Air-pulsing clitoral stimulators like the classic Womanizer is a game changer for a lot of people.
The toy places suction on the clit. Essentially, you want to put the head of the clitoris directly on the suction part of the toy, where it has an air pulsation (sort of like the feeling of a vacuum) on your wife's most sensitive nerve endings!
It provides a feeling of constant sensation that's pretty hard to describe. Out of this world!
Plus, a bonus of this toy is that you can use it on your frenulum, which is that V-shaped part at the front of your penis - where the head meets the shaft. This can feel great there, too. Oh, and another place this toy can feel good is on your wife's nipples.
Considering all this, it's not hard to understand why many women find that this toy gives an intensely pleasurable experience compared to traditional vibrators like rabbits or bullets, for example.
If your wife struggles to feel pleasure during sex, solo play with a toy like this can help her understand the full potential for pleasure that her body holds.
How to use this toy:
Incorporate it into foreplay by using it on your wife while using your fingers for penetration.
Use it in positions like flat doggy style, where she is lying on her tummy with this vibrator positioned underneath her clitoris while you enter from behind.
What I'm trying to say is get creative. Toys like this can add so many layers of excitement and pleasure.
One of the comments I received during my survey was, "Clitoral vibrator every time." And I just have to say, I'm with you, sister. These things are lifesavers!
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Now, let's get back to the toys.
#2 Sensory toys
Number two got a little bit kinky because I had a lot of responses from people saying they enjoy sensory toys. Things like:
Blindfolds
Floggers
Restraints
Feathers
And other kinky things
Now, these are fantastic for heightening anticipation and sensation. Great for those of us who have an energetic or sensory erotic blueprint. These are about making every touch feel more intense and building the connection.
Sensory toys are also great for building trust and exploring new avenues of your intimate life together.
I wrote a Fifty Shades of Grey Toys blog post that gives you a mixture of sensory toys and other toys your wife will love!
#1 Magic Wand
Toy number one, which received the most responses, was a magic wand. Magic wands are incredibly powerful vibrators designed for external stimulation.
One of the comments specifically mentioned the kind that plugs into a wall. It’s a favourite since it never runs out of battery in the middle of fun and has powerful vibrations that can lead to mind-blowing orgasms.
Betty Dodson favoured it, and she was the mother of masturbation. She used to suggest that people who had not experienced orgasm before get started with this toy.
So, if Betty says it's good and most of the ladies in my Instagram audience agree, I think this toy is one to add to your toolbox.
Whether your wife uses it on her own or you incorporate it into foreplay or intercourse, it's a winner! You can even have control and hold the magic wand against your woman's clit while you're having sex to bring that additional clitoral stimulation.
Plus, it's always great to pretend that it’s a microphone. Or is that just me? Lol.
One of the responses I got said, "Literally, my other toys don't come out now that this fun wand hides next to my bed. That baby plugs into the wall and sends me faster than I can manage."
Ready to have hotter sex?
So, there you have it. The top 5 sex toys for women. These toys can transform your intimate moments and bring new excitement (and a whole lot of screams) to your sex life.
And if you and your wife don't already own one, consider shopping for a toy together.
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